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Цитаты из книги Хватит быть славным парнем! Как добиться желаемого в любви, работе и жизни (No More Mr Nice Guy)

In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting.
There are no perfect relationships. There are no perfect partners. Relationships by their very nature are chaotic, eventful, and challenging.
Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone's approval or to avoid disapproval.