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The One Thing Holding You Back
Unleashing the Power of Emotional Connection
by Raphael Cushnir (Dec 30, 2008)
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"By the time you finish this book, there will be nothing holding you back."—from the IntroductionMost people have a vision for their lives that they're not pursuing, half-heartedly pursuing, or pursuing with all their might yet somehow falling short. This vision can be modest or grand. It may involve breaking free of a destructive habit or finding ...
Heidi N. Moore
Jul 07, 2020
@cslrobinson So as a supplement to that book, pick up these two as well. Addressing emotions within the body is an essential part of attachment theory therapy.     source
The Body Keeps the Score
Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (Sep 08, 2015)
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A pioneering researcher and one of the world’s foremost experts on traumatic stress offers a bold new paradigm for healing. Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical viole...
Heidi N. Moore
Jul 07, 2020
And again, if you suspect this in a friendship, please know that telling your friend that the guy is "no good" will NOT work. She's trauma-bonded to him. The process is extrication is slow until something wakes her from the trance. This book is an essential read:     source
Traumatic Stress
The Effects of Overwhelming Experience on Mind, Body, and Society
by Bessel A. van der Kolk (Oct 31, 2006)
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This bestselling classic presents seminal theory and research on posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Together, the leading editors and contributors comprehensively examine how trauma affects an individual's biology, conceptions of the world, and psychological functioning. Key topics include why certain people cope successfully with traumatic expe...
Heidi N. Moore
Jul 04, 2020
Resources. First: Like everything, you have to read a bit and decide if it's really for you. Here are 4 great books on 1) attachment theory and 2) the way to start resolving emotional traumas, which are not accessible to talk because they *live in the body* and subconscious     source
In a society where it is often easier to discuss sex than money, many of us have hidden issues about personal finances. But when fending off bill collectors, begging for salary advances, or borrowing from relatives becomes a way of life, unresolved money problems can lead to enormous stress and destroy relationships, careers, and lives. Do you reco...
Heidi N. Moore
Jul 03, 2020
@HamptonStevens @mountaineerdave @kevinroose There's actually a great book called Money Drunk, Money Sober that looks at how people think about money through the lens of their personality traits and childhood needs. You're both spot on!     source
The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love
by Amir Levine (Jan 05, 2012)
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We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding...
Heidi N. Moore
Jul 02, 2020
@Ter_ELyn I'm glad it helped! It's wonderful that you're doing the work. This book (also in audiobook form) has really great insights too as long as you're all deprogramming yourselves from the patriarchy.     source
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My Year of Rest and Relaxation
A Novel
by Ottessa Moshfegh (Jun 25, 2019)
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This is a novel about a young woman's efforts to duck the ills of the world by embarking on an extended hibernation with the help of one of the worst psychiatrists in the annals of literature and the battery of medicines she prescribes.Our narrator should be happy, shouldn't she? She's young, thin, pretty, a recent Columbia graduate, works an easy ...
Heidi N. Moore
Jul 01, 2020
Last year I read Ottessa Moshfegh's "My Year of Rest and Relaxation" and thought "huh. what a weird concept" and now I think it's the most prescient book of our times     source
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Love Me, Don't Leave Me
Overcoming Fear of Abandonment and Building Lasting, Loving Relationships
by Michelle Skeen PsyD (Sep 01, 2014)
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Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and  community. But if you are denied these basic comforts early in life, whether through a lack of physical affection or emotional bonding, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthoodfears so powerful that they can actually cause you to push pe...
Heidi N. Moore
Mar 16, 2020
If you feel like other people just exist to slow you down -- and not to strengthen you -- or you struggle with imposter syndrome (now I'm subtweeting the WHOLE TL), this is a great cathartic book to read and address those thoughts.     source
No One Tells You This
A Memoir
by Glynnis MacNicol (Jul 16, 2019)
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Featured in multiple must-read lists, No One Tells You This is sharp, intimateA funny, frank, and fearless memoirand a refreshing view of the possibilitiesand pitfallspersonal freedom can offer modern women ( Kirkus Reviews ).If the story doesnt end with marriage or a child, what then? This question plagued Glynnis MacNicol on the eve of her fort...
Heidi N. Moore
Nov 10, 2019
@SusannaDW @GlynnMacN I remember recommending this book to you! So glad you enjoyed it, I love it too and Glynnis is a treasure     source
On Romantic Love
Simple Truths about a Complex Emotion (Philosophy in Action)
by Berit Brogaard (Jan 29, 2018)
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Romantic love presents some of life's most challenging questions. Can we choose who to love? Is romantic love rational? Can we love more than one person at a time? And can we make ourselves fall out of love? Berit Brogaard here attempts to get to the bottom of love's many contradictions. This short book, informed by both historical and cutting edge...
Heidi N. Moore
Oct 29, 2019
anyway the book is very good and way more eloquent than my own affectionately sarcastic tweets     source
The Worldly Philosophers
The Lives, Times And Ideas Of The Great Economic Thinkers, Seventh Edition
by Robert L. Heilbroner (Aug 10, 1999)
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The Worldly Philosophers not only enables us to see more deeply into our history but helps us better understand our own times. In this seventh edition, Robert L. Heilbroner provides a new theme that connects thinkers as diverse as Adam Smith and Karl Marx. The theme is the common focus of their highly varied ideasnamely, the search to understand ho...
Heidi N. Moore
Sep 22, 2019
@VarickBoyd @JeSuisBHL Ah well, I thought you were a veteran of this world, my error. Enjoy the book! It's fantastic.     source
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She Said
Breaking the Sexual Harassment Story That Helped Ignite a Movement
by Jodi Kantor (Sep 10, 2019)
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From the Pulitzer Prize-winning reporters who broke the news of Harvey Weinstein's sexual harassment and abuse for the New York Times, Jodi Kantor and Megan Twohey, the thrilling untold story of their investigation and its consequences for the #MeToo movement For many years, reporters had tried to get to the truth about Harvey Weinstein's treatment...
Heidi N. Moore
Sep 08, 2019
One brilliant aspect: Rather than being a roundup of their reporting, this book looks like it builds on it. You see faces who were anonymous before, fights that were unseen.     source
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
by Lori Gottlieb (Apr 02, 2019)
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One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will ...
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Dance of Anger, The
A Woman's Guide To Changing The Patterns Of Intimate Relationships
by Harriet Lerner (Mar 07, 2014)
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"Anger is a signal and one worth listening to," writes Dr. Harriet Lerner, in her renowned classic that has transformed the lives of millions of readers. While anger deserves our attention and respect, women still learn to silence our anger, to deny it entirely, or to vent it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless. In this engaging ...
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Running on Empty
Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect
by Jonice Webb (Oct 01, 2012)
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Running on Empty is the first self-help book about Emotional Neglect: an invisible force from your childhood which you can't see, but may be affecting you profoundly to this day. It is about what didn't happen in your childhood, what wasn't said, and what cannot be remembered. Do you sometimes feel as if you're just going through the motions in lif...
Every Frenchman Has One
by Olivia De Havilland (Jan 01, 1962)
Inscribed by de Havilland...202 Pages...